If there’s one lesson I’ve learned over the years as a founder, mentor, and business coach, it’s this: you cannot build greatness alone.
Behind every major breakthrough in my journey, there was a conversation, a connection, a helping hand—or even just a kind word from someone who believed in me. That’s the power of networking. And no, I’m not talking about the forced, awkward kind where people exchange business cards and forget each other five minutes later. I’m talking about real connections—ones that grow with time, add value, and lead to mutual growth.
What Real Networking Looks Like
Let’s clear this up: Networking is not about showing up with a pitch. It’s not about being the loudest person in the room. It’s about being intentional with relationships.
The most powerful connections I’ve built didn’t start with, “Here’s what I do, and here’s what I need.” They started with curiosity. A genuine conversation. A question like, “What inspired you to start your business?” That simple shift—being interested before being interesting—makes all the difference.
Why Networking Matters for Founders
Whether you’re building your first startup or growing your fifth, the relationships you build will often open doors faster than any strategy.
Here’s what networking has done for me (and can do for you too):
- Access to Opportunities: Most game-changing opportunities don’t show up on a job board or in your email inbox. They come from conversations. Referrals. Partnerships. Collaboration.
- Shared Wisdom: You get to learn from the experiences, mistakes, and insights of others. That kind of learning can’t be Googled.
- Emotional Support: Entrepreneurship can feel lonely. Connecting with like-minded founders can give you the strength to keep going on hard days.
- Credibility and Trust: People trust people. When others vouch for you, your credibility skyrockets—and so does your impact.
How to Build Meaningful Business Connections
Let’s make this practical. Here are a few things that have helped me build real connections over the years:
1. Show Up Consistently
Join events, attend workshops, and participate in communities related to your field. Don’t wait until you “need something” to start connecting. Show up early, give before you ask, and stay visible.
2. Lead with Value
Ask yourself: “How can I help this person?” Maybe it’s a resource, a piece of advice, or simply encouragement. People remember how you made them feel.
3. Be Yourself
You don’t have to pretend to be someone else to impress people. Authenticity builds trust. Speak from the heart. Don’t over-polish your story. Just be real.
4. Follow Up, Don’t Ghost
After meeting someone, send a message, connect on LinkedIn, or drop a thank-you note. Relationships grow with nurture. Don’t let them go cold.
5. Join the Right Rooms
You don’t have to be everywhere. Choose rooms where your values align. Choose communities that feel safe, supportive, and built on respect.
Building a Network That Works for You
Networking shouldn’t feel like a chore or a competition. When done right, it becomes one of the most rewarding parts of your journey. Some of my closest friends today were people I met through business events. We started as strangers. But over time, we built trust—and we’ve helped each other grow in ways we never imagined.
And let me say this: you are worthy of being in rooms that stretch you, challenge you, and celebrate you. Don’t disqualify yourself from showing up. Your voice, your ideas, your presence—they matter.
Final Thoughts
Building a meaningful network takes time, but every seed you plant can grow into something beautiful. You don’t need to know the “right” people to start. Just start being the kind of person others want to know.
So here’s my challenge to you: This week, reach out to someone you admire. Start a conversation. Offer help. And be open to where that connection could lead.
Because in this journey of entrepreneurship, we rise higher when we rise together.
If you need help to find the right network to help in your business, book a quick 1-1 session on our website today to get started.